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Transitioning from Relaxer to Natural

I mean, we all know what they are, but what do relaxers actually do?


Just in case you aren't familiar, hair relaxers are chemical products used to change the natural texture of curly or kinky hair, making it smoother and easier to manage. Think of them as a way to temporarily straighten your hair without using heat styling tools like flat irons or hot combs.


Deciding to transition from relaxed hair to your natural texture is a big step. For many women, it’s a journey of learning to care for their natural hair in a way they might not have before. Whether you’re motivated by a desire for healthier hair, fewer chemicals, or simply to embrace your natural beauty, transitioning can be both exciting and challenging.


What Does Transitioning Mean?

Transitioning means moving away from chemically processed hair (like relaxers) and allowing your natural texture to grow in. Unlike the "big chop" (where you cut off all the relaxed hair at once), transitioning is a more gradual process. During this time, you'll have both natural and relaxed hair on your head, which can create unique challenges when it comes to styling, caring for, and maintaining healthy hair.

Why Transition?

There are many reasons women decide to transition from relaxed to natural hair:


  • Healthier Hair: Relaxers can weaken hair, leading to breakage, thinning, and dryness. Transitioning allows your hair to grow without the stress of chemicals, resulting in stronger, healthier strands.


  • Embrace Your Natural Texture: Many women are curious about their natural curl pattern and want to experience the versatility of their natural hair.


  • Avoid Chemical Damage: The chemicals in relaxers can cause long-term damage to both your hair and scalp. By going natural, you reduce your exposure to these harsh treatments.


  • Cultural or Personal Identity: For some, transitioning is a way to reconnect with their roots, embrace their culture, and feel empowered by their natural beauty.

What to Expect During the Transition

Transitioning is a process, and it’s important to set realistic expectations for yourself. Here are a few things to keep in mind:


Two Textures

During your transition, you’ll be working with two very different textures—your natural curls or coils at the roots, and the relaxed, straight hair at the ends. Managing these two textures can be tricky because they require different care. The line where the two textures meet is known as the "line of demarcation," and it’s the most delicate part of your hair. Special attention is needed here to prevent breakage.


Learning Curve

If you haven’t worked with your natural texture in a while (or ever), there will be a learning curve. You’ll need to figure out which products, styling techniques, and routines work best for your hair. Don’t get discouraged if it takes time to find what works.


Hair Shedding and Breakage

During the transition, your hair may experience more shedding and breakage than usual. This is normal as your hair adjusts to its new texture and the different demands of caring for natural hair.

Tips for a Smooth Transition

While transitioning can be a challenging process, there are plenty of ways to make it easier and keep your hair healthy along the way.


Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize

Natural hair, especially curly and coily textures, tends to be drier than relaxed hair because it’s harder for natural oils to travel down the hair shaft. Moisture is key to preventing breakage, especially at the line of demarcation. Use hydrating products like leave-in conditioners, water-based moisturizers, and oils to keep your hair soft and manageable.

  • Products to Try: Look for moisturizing creams and leave-ins that contain ingredients like shea butter, aloe vera, or coconut oil.


Protective Styles

Protective styles like braids, twists, or buns are a great way to give your hair a break during the transition. These styles keep your hair tucked away, reducing the manipulation of your two textures and protecting the fragile line of demarcation.

  • Tip: Avoid tight styles that put tension on your scalp or hairline, as this can lead to breakage or thinning.


Trim Regularly

Although you’re growing out your natural hair, regular trims are essential to get rid of the relaxed ends over time. Trimming your hair every 6-8 weeks will help minimize breakage and keep your hair looking healthy. Over time, as you trim away the relaxed ends, you’ll have more natural hair.


Gentle Detangling

Detangling can be a challenge when dealing with two different textures, but patience is key. Always detangle your hair when it’s damp and saturated with conditioner. Use a wide-tooth comb or your fingers to gently work through knots, starting from the ends and working your way up to the roots.

  • Pro Tip: Detangle in sections to avoid unnecessary breakage and to make the process more manageable.


Deep Condition Regularly

Deep conditioning treatments are a must during the transition phase. They help keep your hair hydrated, reduce breakage, and improve elasticity. Try to deep condition your hair at least once a week to maintain moisture and strengthen your hair.

  • Ingredients to Look For: Products with proteins, like keratin or silk proteins, can help strengthen the hair. Hydrating ingredients like honey, avocado, and olive oil will keep your hair moisturized.


Scalp Care

A healthy scalp is the foundation for healthy hair growth. During your transition, make sure to keep your scalp clean and moisturized. Regularly massage your scalp to increase blood flow, which can promote hair growth. Avoid product buildup by washing your scalp with a gentle, sulfate-free shampoo or co-washing (washing with conditioner) as needed.

If you're worried about the risks associated with relaxers, I got you! Regardless of the choice to rock natural or relaxed, all of Nae Nae's Naturals products work on both natural and chemically treated hair.


My gentle cleansing shampoos offer the perfect balance of cleansing and nourishment, ensuring your hair looks and feels its best every day.  Clean hair stays strong, vibrant, and beautiful.


We also have several moisturizing and nourishing conditioners and deep treatments to help keep hair moisturized and healthy.


If you aren't sure about using chemicals to straighten your hair, there are plenty of alternatives available. You could try using heat styling tools like flat irons or blow dryers to straighten your hair temporarily. Or you could explore other treatments like keratin treatments, which can help smooth out your hair without using harsh chemicals. And of course, you could always embrace your natural curls or kinks and rock a beautiful natural hairstyle.


Styling Tips During Transition

One of the biggest challenges when transitioning is figuring out how to style your hair with two textures. Here are some styling tips to make your journey easier:


Blend the Two Textures

Blending the two textures can be tricky, but there are plenty of heat-free styles that can help. Twist-outs, braid-outs, or rod sets (using perm rods or flexi rods) can create a uniform curl pattern, making it easier to blend your natural and relaxed hair. These styles give your hair definition and reduce the appearance of the two different textures.


Low Manipulation Styles

Opt for styles that don’t require a lot of daily handling, like buns, flat twists, or updos. These low-manipulation styles reduce the chances of breakage and give your hair time to rest.


Wigs and Extensions

If you need a break from dealing with two textures, wigs and extensions can be a great option. They allow you to protect your hair while giving you the freedom to change your look. Just remember to care for your natural hair underneath by keeping it moisturized and clean.


Embracing Your Natural Journey

Transitioning from relaxed to natural hair is not just about changing your hairstyle; it’s often an emotional and empowering journey of self-love and acceptance. Along the way, you’ll learn more about your natural hair texture, how to care for it, and how to love and appreciate its unique beauty. Be patient with yourself, and don’t be afraid to ask for help—whether that’s from a trusted stylist, natural hair community, or online resources.


By focusing on moisture, protective styles, regular trims, and gentle detangling, you can ensure a smooth transition while maintaining the health of your hair. Remember, your natural hair is beautiful just as it is, and with time, you’ll learn how to embrace and care for it in ways that make you feel confident and empowered.


Remember to research and make informed decisions about what you put in and on your body. Healthy, natural options are available!

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